Seasoned Voter Says This Election is the Most 'Vicious,' but Friends and Relatives Will Make It Through
The sense that political discussions between everyday people have become both more frequent and more contentious over the years was a common theme echoed by participants during the Southwestern Your Voice Ohio discussion group.
James Porter, 82, of Franklin, a small town between Dayton and Cincinnati, has the perspective of a voter who’s cast a ballot in 15 presidential elections.
“This is the most talked about, most vicious cycle of elections that I've ever seen or heard of,” he said. “I’ve never been through anything like this. You can just almost feel the hate … People are just more up in arms.”
Porter said the No. 1 difference he sees between the past few presidential elections and those more distant is that voters are taking a “more visible” stance lately. He said his neighborhood is the perfect example. Porter lives on an approximately 2-mile-long street with well-spaced houses and big yards. On Oct. 13, the street contained at least 32 pro-Donald Trump signs, flags or banners; two signs that said “just be kind”; a half-dozen local election signs; and one pro-Joe Biden sign.
Porter installed his “Trump 2020” sign Oct. 13. He was one of the last handful of residents to not take a public stance on the presidential election in their yard. He said he’d previously only put political signs in his yard for local elections.
In contrast, during the dialogue, Porter recalled a story from “many years ago” that illustrates how Americans were previously discouraged from talking about “politics, sex or religion.”
Porter said he’s concerned about polarization in the country today, but he doesn’t know what the solution is, a common view among the dialogue participants. He said his social circles will make it through the election.
“My friends, my relatives, most of them gonna’ vote one way and some gonna’ vote another, but we're all still going to go to church together,” he said. “And we're going to go to that family reunion together, and we don't let (political differences) bog us down. And that’s going to happen this year.”
Porter prays there is a “clear-cut winner” in the presidential election “no matter which one it is” because he fears the fallout if the election is in doubt.